Resources

some books, podcasts, videos and websites to support you in your exploration of end-of-life & grief practices

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BOOKS

The Smell of Rain on Dust by Martín Prechtel argues that modern society’s avoidance of grief leads to cultural and personal maladies, proposing that grief, when properly expressed communally, is essential for healing and is the ultimate form of praise for life and love, connecting loss to the world’s renewal, much like rain revitalizes dry earth. Prechtel, drawing on Mayan wisdom, shows how unprocessed grief becomes “ghosts” or illnesses, and encourages embracing rituals to transform loss into beauty and deeper appreciation for life”

The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller redefines grief not as a problem to solve but as a vital, sacred human experience, offering rituals and insights to move through loss, shame, and suffering, transforming them into deeper connection, compassion, and aliveness, revealing that sorrow’s wild edge holds profound healing and spiritual gifts if we dare to welcome it with attention and community, rather than numbing it. Weller introduces Five Gates of Grief—loss of loved ones, unloved parts of ourselves, world sorrows, unmet expectations, and ancestral grief—guiding readers to engage with these areas through communal practices and a courageous, attentive hear”